Cam is a man who lives a low disclosure lifestyle, yet he continues to engage with community and mentor younger transmen. He is the birth parent of two adult sons and has a close relationship with them. He loves being a parent. Cam says that although he was always masculine, he would not have transitioned earlier than he did in 2006 while in his 40s.  He has had his own consulting business doing anti-racism work. Listen as he shares what it’s like to do his work with mostly white men in positions of power, and his rationale for not disclosing. When Cam pursued medical transition, we carefully considering his options and timing. He underwent numerous gender affirming surgery procedures and had some serious complications that were life-changing. He stopped working for a while and when he reentered the work force, he did did not disclose his history with new clients. He is a practicing Buddhist, an avid weightlifter and charismatic guest. Trystan co-hosts with Jackal and Kai.